Author: Thom

Why the Differences? Here’s one reason
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How many times have we heard the lament, “But he never talks about his feelings.” And in many ways this lament is the
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Why No Tears?
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Jason had experienced the death of his 16 year old best friend to suicide two months prior. His parents were worried about him. They hadn’t
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Striving for Status
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“My son wants to win. Nearly all the time. When he doesn’t he gets upset. He won’t quit playing his video game until he reaches level 22. Food, rest, drink, nothing stops him.”
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When your son slams his books on the counter and heads to his room
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13 year old Jimmy came home and slammed his books down on the counter. Mom asked him what was up and he marched directly to his room and slammed
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BIG BOYS DON’T CRY – and the good reasons for it
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The first reason is that when boys go through puberty and get elevated testosterone levels their access to their emotional tears goes down. Basically, when boys are 12 they lose some of their connection
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Excerpt – Boys Healing Through Creativity
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“The following is an excerpt from the section on how boys heal. This excerpt focuses on healing through creative action. Excerpt: Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons, page 53-54 I once worked with a young man whose girlfriend was killed in a car accident. The young man was distraught and crushed by her death.…
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Excerpt – Precarious Manhood – A boy needs to prove his worth
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“This excerpt is from the section on “precarious manhood” that describes the latest research on the concept of manhood and how it is a moving goalpost that impacts boys and men. Excerpt from page 28, Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons “When girls successfully go through puberty they are nearly always…
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Excerpt – Testosterone Impacts Boys? – It ain’t what you think
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Testosterone Research techniques have improved and are showing us some new sides of the hormone testosterone. This excerpt is part of the section that talks about some of those discoveries. Excerpt: Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons, page 13-14 “For many years scientists have tried to solidify a connection between testosterone and aggression but…
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Excerpt – Teaching Boys About Feelings – Tips from a child therapist
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The following is an excerpt from the section on teaching boys about emotions and focuses on helping him use his body to track his emotions. Excerpt: Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons, page 90 “The other thing you can do to help is to get him to connect his bodily experience with the emotion.…
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Excerpt — TELLING STORIES where you make boys a part of the action
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The book offers plenty of suggestions about how to be closer with your son. This excerpt is from the storytelling section and focuses on how to tell stories to boys where they are a character within the story. They love it! Excerpt: Helping Mothers be Closer to Their Sons, page 72 “One of the things…
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